Weddings

The criteria for becoming a wedding officiant must be fairly wide and generous.  I have attended a wedding or two recently that have been conducted by an individual acting as the civil servant to make things ‘legal’.  These individuals have come with their own ‘unique’ way of doing a wedding.  This, of course, is outside the realms of ‘church’ and ‘religion’, so much so as to be on the bizarre side.

This, of course, is an observation from the standpoint of one (namely me) who has entered into the world of baptisms, weddings and funerals.  From where I stand, these people perform a service and it saddens and troubles me that God is absent in those moments when two hearts are being joined to become a unit and, in future, will raise a family.  That leads to another issue…a generation that will be completely unaware of church or maybe religion for that matter.

We, as society, have missed something I think.  I am not sure what can be done about it.  What I do know is that in my family circle, I will always try to bring the grace and love of God to our life events.  I pray that my example and my faith may be enough to at least have them think about it.

And now I sit and wonder what this all means in the grander scheme of things… where are we all going to end up?  I have a new generation that is on the way and I have to wonder what it will all mean to him or her?

As a final aside, I have looked at length to see what one has to do to become licensed by the Province of Ontario to become a registered officiant.  Well, it is still a mystery to me.  I will let you know when/if I find out.

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News!

I am so happy to announce that my son and daughter-in-law are having a baby!!

What goes along with this, of course, is that I will be a grandma!  I am so excited but not as excited as my husband…  We are both so lucky and blessed.  It does not get much better than this.  March 2011 will be a very special time.

The dilemma now begins…how is one addressed???? Grandma, Grannie, Nana … so many choices, can’t wait to hear the right one for me!

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A friend who cares is…

“The friend who can be silent with us in a moment of despair or confusion, who can stay with us in an hour of grief and bereavement, who can tolerate not
knowing… not healing, not curing… that is a friend who cares.”
Henri Nouwen

May we all have friends such as this and, most importantly, may we be a friend such as this as well!

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Playing For Change | Peace Through Music

Playing For Change | Peace Through Music.

The Inspiration

Playing for Change is a multimedia movement created to inspire, connect, and bring peace to the world through music. The idea for this project arose from a common belief that music has the power to break down boundaries and overcome distances between people. No matter whether people come from different geographic, political, economic, spiritual or ideological backgrounds, music has the universal power to transcend and unite us as one human race. And with this truth firmly fixed in our minds, we set out to share it with the world.

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Atlantic School of Theology Magazine

This magazine is only published twice a year and it just so happens that the Spring/Summer 2010 edition was available (finally) just before I completed classes this summer.

This edition as well as prior ones can be accessed by PDF through this page link:  http://www.astheology.ns.ca/documents/ASTMagazine.html

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Stress Relief

I was reminded today about this video clip…it never fails to make me laugh.  Laughter is such a good stress release and relief.

I wanted to capture this and share it with you too!  All I can say is…. Enjoy and be stress free!

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Worship and Liturgy

That is my focus at the moment… worship and liturgy.  Why we do what we do on Sunday mornings and what it means not only to me but to the members of my congregation.

Right now, I think that Sunday mornings for most of my congregations are about doing what they have always done… not really sure why, most often oblivious to the meaning or implications.   So in the pursuit of inspiration and information for a potential study group to talk about worship and its parts and liturgy and its parts, I have just finished reading:  Liturgical worship, a fresh look, how it works, why it matters by Mark Earey.

This is a thin volume of just a bit over 100 pages and it packs in, what I consider to be, the basics and explanations.  I think it is a good place to begin the discussion and I hope to create a study group using this as a resource.

My ideas for this group are preliminary, however, I will start out with the background basics and build from there.  I would hope that at the end of the group (8 weeks) that enough preparation work would be in place to be able to experiment with different styles of worship to see what really fits for my people.

I have to remind myself, that there are those few people who will be very resistant to any change.  This means that it will be gradual and gentle!  At least, when the exercise has been completed, there will be an awareness and level of understanding that was not there before we started.  And yes, this is a ‘we’ project not a ‘me’ project.

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Social Ministry

In the next session of the course Supervised Ministry Practicum, this is the chosen textbook:  Social Ministry, An Urgent Agenda for Pastors and Churches by Haskell M. Miller.

I have completed reading this book and have found it to be an easy, practical and accessible read.  What troubles me, however, is Chapter 9 entitled ‘Areas of Day-to-Day Concern’.  What is presented in this chapter is insulting, biased, inflammatory, and misinformed.  I find it truly unfortunate that this publication was not previewed because the information and the way that it is presented could be harmful and misleading for anyone who does not necessarily have the background or previous exposure to these ‘areas of day-to-day concern’ such as alcohol, gambling, abortion, homosexuality, family life, at-risk youth etc.  Further, some of the contexts that we provide ministry in, for example the rural environment, will not relate or fit with the concerns in the same way as the urban environment will.

Just my thoughts…  I will look forward to hearing what my peers think!

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Message

What’s the Message / Sermon 15 August 2010 / Matthew 22:34 – 40

It seems like a lifetime since I have been standing here and worshipping with you!  In one way, it has been… I left for the Atlantic School of Theology in June not only to learn but also to be further trained and transformed for the work of ministry in this place!

The summer has again gone by in a blur for me… I explored the gospel of Matthew with a Roman Catholic sister, I explored the life of the theologian Dietrich Bonhoeffer, a life that was ended by his murder at the hands of the Nazi regime and finally, I explored pastoral ministry in smaller congregations.  Three very different subject areas but they all seem to connect at various points that broaden my understanding and my ministry.  As a friend has put it… it is like we are pieces of sea glass put into the tumbler to be mixed together with grit and each other, to have our rough edges smoothed and polished and at the end, we are no longer the cloudy piece of sea glass but a piece of clear coloured glass that allows the light to pass through it.  Each piece of glass, each of us, transformed and made new by our contact with each other through this intense education process.  A process by which each piece of glass becomes a treasure!  I feel like I am still in the tumbler.  Soon though, I hope to be that clear coloured glass that can be treasured because I certainly feel changed.

On one of our day trips this past week…one of the many signs we passed caught my attention.  “We don’t change the message….the message changes us.”  And as I thought about that and reflected on it, I realize that it’s quite true.  The message is consistent, the Bible and scriptures are consistent.  Today’s scripture, the Greatest Commandment…has two parts … You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind.  AND 3839You shall love your neighbour as yourself.  As scripture and scripture lessons go, this is quite clear.  It is also clear that there is a message here, a way for us to live our life, one of those guiding principles, a compass for living life as a Christian.

Matthew’s message is that the love of God and the love of neighbour are synonymous and the command of love is in a twofold direction… to God and to neighbour.

That still leaves us to interpret the message…. what is the message? Is it only one?  Or is there more?  Do they build on each other?  Is the message only available here?  On Sunday?  Do you share the message that you have with others?  Do you keep it for yourself?   What happens when you share it?  What happens to the message if you have a different status?

In my role as minister, it is one of my responsibilities to guide a shared exploration of the message… the process starts with what I see as the message in the hope that what I see can mean something to you and that it may spark a further message in you.  I see my role and relationship as minister as being best expressed this way:

“I am saying in effect that I am standing in a universe in which every being is of worth, that my localized responsibilities and loves are related to a larger whole, and that there are sources of loving power at work with me (and against me) to seek the well-being of all.  This affirmation demands that I work for justice and that the justice I seek for myself, for other women [this would be for others in my personal view], and for those others with whom I am connected must exist in a universal circle of justice to all beings.”

This quotation comes from a text entitled ‘the great commandment a theology of resistance and transformation’ by Eleanor H. Haney.

This not only describes how I see myself but also puts it in the perspective of ‘the great commandment’ – to love God with all your heart, soul and mind and to love your neighbour as yourself.  What this excerpt also says to me is that I am not the only one involved to provide the message or to work for justice.  We are, each one of us, part of the universal circle.  Each of us is able and capable of providing the message.  Preaching the Gospel, sharing the message is not only about me… it is about us and about what we do with the message.  What happens to the message beyond these walls, beyond our worship time together?  What we may need to do first is to become more aware of the message and what it means to us before we are able to know what it means to have a message to take beyond this faith community and to share it.

We each have a personal ability and responsibility to share the messages.  For those who have not heard the Good News or may have fallen away… they need to hear our messages.  Messages that say we are not alone, messages that say we care about our creation and all that is in it.  Most importantly, the message that we are each children of God, that each of us matters and is important and has an important part to play.  We each have something important to say that adds to the message….You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind.  AND You shall love your neighbour as yourself.

The message…. allow it to change you.

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Study leave and vacation

What is important to include clearly in the terms of an appointment as student supply is that the six weeks at AST every summer are study leave.  This is separate and apart from vacation which should be four weeks.

All that needs to be explained is that while at AST for those six weeks, you are taking three courses, two weeks per course.  In those two weeks the course that you are taking would normally be done over a three-month period.  That’s right, three months into two weeks….. very intense and by the time you have reach that third course there is limited energy and tolerance left!

Another piece of advice is to have vacation time scheduled for immediately after finishing courses at AST.  My personal preference is two weeks.  I have learned during my working life that the first week is the time to unwind and the second week is when the vacation mode really kicks in.

It is crucial to be aware of your needs for self-care.  If you don’t take care of yourself, no one else is going to step up for you.  As well, if you are not willing to take care of yourself, how do you think you can take on the leadership role in a congregation and take care of them?

Food for thought….

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